Liked and broke? Hated and paid?



Hey Reader,

How you KNOW your profile is blocking money for each profile line is below ⤵️

She said: “They either love you or hate you, but if you’re neither loved nor hated, you won’t be getting paid and you’re misaligned.” My stomach dropped. Is this why I’m stuck?

One of my human design mentors 6 years ago was doing a breakdown of the HD profiles.

I did a quick analysis: everyone liked me. “You go girl!” “So inspiring!” “How’s your little business?” “I just love what you’re doing, Christy!” Liked…. I liked being liked. It felt safe. But loved? Paid? Here and there. And definitely not predictably.

Haters? No. But I was willing to experience that if it meant not living a lukewarm life. I’d already spent my whole life trying to be liked, living lukewarm, trying to impress my parents, teachers, bosses. For what? A .05% raise year over year? A 2-week vacation after 2 years of working somewhere? Being liked had sucked the soul right out of me.

At that point in time, I had a business as a virtual assistant making 5–10k months. Human Design had helped me get this far. I was following my strategy and authority and had finally, FINALLY opened my coaching business. With years of experience in corporate marketing campaigns for multiple companies, and years of working as a virtual assistant behind the scenes of companies making anywhere from 10–100k months, building systems, helping with selling campaigns and launches, I figured it’d be EASY to be a coach.

F*** it. I’d take some hate to be successful. To go all in on my dreams. But How???

The answer I got: “Do the deconditioning work.”

“ok…. but how?”

You learn how little it matters how much you know when you launch any business. Because you quickly find out that people won’t even consider buying what you have to offer unless they are sold on YOU first.

Your vibe,

Your confidence,

Your aura.

And if your aura is off, it doesn’t matter how much content you create or how good your offers are: you can’t trick the universe and you can’t trick the collective. If you’re not in your aligned profile frequencies, you’re repelling people.

You know you’re repelling the money if:

1 line: If people keep saying “you’re so knowledgeable” but no one is actually paying you for your knowledge, it means they don’t feel your certainty. You either emit solidity from your aura, or they can’t feel you and you’re misaligned.

2 line: People should naturally be seeing and paying for your genius. If you’re constantly trying to convince people you’re talented or begging for attention, you’re misaligned.

3 line: If people are fascinated by your story but still don’t trust you enough to pay you for what you’ve learned from it, you’re misaligned.

4 line: You keep opening your heart, sharing your insight, building community, and offering real value… but it feels like no one truly sees you, values the heart you are putting into your work, and they’re not stepping forward in mass to pay you for it. That coldness: it’s the signal you’re misaligned.

5 line: They either love you or hate you, but if you’re neither loved nor hated, you won’t be getting paid and you’re misaligned.

6 line: Your vision should land. When you speak, people should listen. If your words are being misunderstood and people aren’t fully grasping your depth, you’re misaligned and they won’t pay you.

Back to my question of how: “ Just follow you strategy and authority. Just bring awareness to it, it’ll decondition on its own.” ya… but HOWWWW????

I’d been doing that for the year before when I first found Human Design, and if awareness was really the answer, why was my experience not changing?

I found this everywhere, HD teachers presenting deconditioning the profile shadows as a passive process. As if being aware would unravel years of conditioning on its own and start bringing in the money.

Knowing wasn’t changing anything for me. I actually felt good learning, but you can only learn so much before you look at your life and ask, “Where’s the CHANGE that this learning is supposed to cause?” That’s why a lot of people end up frustrated with HD.

First, because they don’t even know their profile is the key to people being attracted to their aura and getting paid.

And second, because awareness isn’t doing anything for them. They’re still dealing with identity conditioning, behavioral patterns, trauma responses, nervous system patterns, and social survival strategies that keep them locked in a repelling aura.

These things don’t just disappear because someone intellectually understands their design.

I was going to have to answer this question on my own, and 5 years ago, I discovered what has now changed hundreds of women’s lives and collectively resulted in the creation of millions of dollars through aligning to their HD profiles.

Knowing the shadow was never going to be enough.

Because the shadow is never the root.

The shadow is the symptom.

Underneath it is a wound, a conditioning pattern, a survival identity, and a nervous system response that keeps the aura broadcasting misalignment.

I went on a mission to clear this root. And the mental realms weren’t cutting it. Because the identity patterns that create an aura, the determinant of magnetism … live deeper than just “decondition by thinking a better thought.”

They live in the subconscious, the nervous system, the energetic patterns the body repeats automatically.

I started by learning how to extract the shadow patterns inside my own profile and trace them back to the root: the wound, the survival strategy, the identity I had built to stay safe. (We build safety strategies at every level of growth, and I didn’t realize that my subconscious was protecting me from what I said I wanted.)

Then I had to figure out how to actually change that identity and emit a new frequency from the aura: the place where those patterns actually live.

Through much experimentation and testing, I dove deep with guided subconscious work using specific brainwave frequencies that open the mind into deeper receptive states.

I addressed the physical field with practices that stimulate the body’s energetic pathways. Testing new ways of relating to the profile shadows on a somatic level. I didn’t realize that I was retraining my nervous system to the aligned expression of my profile until:

  • I had a 20k month
  • Started making decisions that would have sent a past version of myself into a spiral (like letting go of virtual assistant clients and raising my prices)
  • Taking actions before I felt ready and speaking as someone who was solid and confident

During this experimentation process, I learned how this worked for all of the profiles and began testing it on my clients:

Their unique shadows, root causes, alignment techniques, and aura deprogramming.

If you’re tired of being liked but not paid, it’s time to fix the root.

Inside HD Profile Mastery, I walk you through this exact process for your specific profile that was previously only available to private clients. Uncover the shadow patterns in your profile, clear the identity beneath them, and retrain your nervous system so your aura finally projects the aligned frequency.

This is where your magnetism turns back on.

This is when people feel you.

This is when they buy.

There are 8 days left to get the special pricing.

Use code “PROFILESPECIAL” to unlock.

If your profile has been blocking your money…

this is where you change it.

You can read/listen to the Profile to Abundance Shadow Revealer ebook and audiobook for free right now ⤵️


Much love,
Christy

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